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     After getting divorced at 34 and subsequently going on dozens of horrible dates, it became painfully clear that dating in your thirties and forties is completely different than dating in your twenties. Not only has the dating pool changed dramatically, but people are far more set in their ways. There's also a lot of angry people out there, but more on that later. With enough of these dates under my belt (figuratively), I began to see patterns emerging for both myself and my dates. On this website I'm going to discuss those patterns. More important, I'm going to tell you how to change your patterns so that you can find a relationship that satisfies your needs. Or you can continue doing the same old thing, relying on smarmy snake-oil salesmen like Neil Warren of eHarmony and whoever set up match.com who will tell you that your problem is that you haven't met the right person. What a bunch of bull! The real problem with your dating life is you.

So let me tell you why you need to change