About the Author and This Website

After getting divorced at 34 and subsequently going on dozens of horrible dates, it became painfully clear that dating in your thirties and forties is completely different than dating in your twenties. Not only has the dating pool changed dramatically, but people are far more set in their ways. There's also a lot of angry people out there, but more on that later. With enough of these dates under my belt (figuratively), I began to see patterns emerging for both myself and my dates. I delve into these patterns in my book. More importantly, I'm going to tell you how to change your patterns so that you can find a relationship that satisfies your needs. Or you can continue doing the same old thing, relying on websites like eHarmony and Match.com (owned by the same people, by the way) who will tell you that your problem is that you haven't met the right person. What a bunch of bull. The real problem with your dating life is you and what you choose. So let's talk about that!

Contact me at: carl@notmydreamdate.com

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